A little letter to all the girls out there; young and old:
I have something that I need to tell you about the world and what it likes to make you believe about love and how to get it. Society has this distorted thought that in order to get love from a man you have to do certain things.I want to address that these things are around. Here are some things you need to know.
A couple of days ago, I saw a young couple about my age walking through the mall. The young lady had half of each butt cheek hanging out of her shorts. Today, I decided to drive the boulevard to get home. I saw young women with their midriff showing and once again their buttocks hanging out of their shorts. Sweetheart, please understand that this is not the way to attract young men. This is the way to attract men who don't care about your personality or your passion. Attract men through who you are and the great things that you do!!A great thing to remember is "The beautiful things don't ask for attention"-Secrete Life of Walter Mitty and that the Bible says in 1 Peter 3:3-4, "Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothes yourselves instead with the beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."
The next thing is don't you ever let a boy make you feel like you are unimportant or worthless. There have been too many girls in this world that have taken their own lives because someone somewhere made them feel bad about themselves. There are so many people in this world that love you and that continue you to love you. That boy that said that you were nothing to him, is obviously so stupid to say that about someone so AWESOME as you!! There have been boys in my past that have treated me like absolute crap and have made me feel absolutely horrible about my self. But God is an awesome God and he reminded me through the great friends and family that I have, that I am His daughter and that I am made in His image. I want you to remember that no one should ever make you feel like you don't mean anything, because you mean something to me.
Little one, please grasp what I am saying. There is someone out there for you, that will wait for you and will love you unconditionally. I have dated boys that I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. There have been boys in my life that I would have jumped off a cliff for if they told me to, but God had other plans for me and He has a plan for you. If He would have given me what I begged and prayed for every night I wouldn't have the absolute blissful happiness I have now. So please, don't get too upset when things don't work out with the person you thought would be "the one" because He has something and someone so much better in store for you!!!
Please remember these things about life! Don't let anyone make you feel uncomfortable in the body that you are in or make you feel worthless or unimportant. Learn to love yourself first before you try to love someone else, because its so much easier loving someone when I love myself. God and I love you!!
Love,
Katy
No comments:
Post a Comment